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Valerie Schultz's avatar

I'm late to reading my email after spending time with my granddaughters, but I felt moved to share a reflection I wrote about 'Mary, Undoer of Knots' for the Oct 2020 issue of 'Give Us This Day.' I am very fond of that painting and that Mary! I recently recommended her to a friend. Thanks for indulging me.

KNOTS UNDONE

Mothers know a lot about knots, good and bad. Our hair is put up in a knot: good. A necklace has a knot: bad. We tie the knot: good. We tie ourselves in knots: bad. My dad was a Navy man who tied complicated knots: good if you could figure out their undoing, bad if you could not.

Maybe I love this painting of Mary, Undoer of Knots, because she is unfazed by knots. She is just as calm undoing intricate knots in a ribbon as she is crushing the snake under her foot, and she’s doing it all with a bunch of little people surrounding her and a dove hovering over her head. She is Everymother: admirably unflappable, she multi-tasks with ease. She can love and nurture and fix and mend and embrace God and fight evil, and that is a normal day for her. She is full of grace.

During my mothering years I have undone lesser knots, in delicate chains or a daughter’s long hair. Undoing knots takes fingers of patience. It takes small and careful movements. It takes strategy, understanding how one untangle affects the next tangle. It takes dedication to the goal so that the tightest bit of knot doesn’t make you quit in frustration. A knot finally undone is satisfaction. It is freedom.

Then there are the knots we mothers cannot undo. When our loved ones are tied up in the trials and turmoils of life - addiction, alienation, strife, sin - we see the knots, but they are not ours to untie. At these times, we pray with hands upheld to Mary, Undoer of Knots, to disentangle these hard snarls. We can only trust that the ties that bind us to God and to one another are stronger than the knots that confine us.

The sweet poetry of this simple prayer calls us to multi-task like Mary: to find God in all things, to place our hearts in God, and to serve God in our sisters and brothers, unfettered from our stubborn and particular knots by God’s grace.

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Richard Burbach's avatar

Absolutely love this!!! As you well know, Ignatius didn’t want a religious order holed up in a monastery. Rather, he wanted Jesuits to be “out there in the town square”.

“Thank you for taking me to the square!” These are more than words to a dedicated health care assistant. They are a quintessentially end of life prayer of profound gratitude to the Father for the gift of this Jesuit’s life!

Doesn’t get much better than that!

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